We’re more than a month into 2026. Just about six weeks ago, tons of people were making resolutions, setting goals, creating vision boards and making BINGO Cards! Sadly, some folks have already called it quits.
When it comes to the beginning of the year, there are some pretty common goals, like…
Lose Weight
Eat healthy
Exercise more
Drink more water
Get out of debt
All of those are notable, but tackling all of them at them same time would be a recipe for failure. In fact, the people who’ve already given up on their goals and resolutions were probably trying to change everything at once. They’ll find a lot more success if they change one thing at time.
Change ONE Thing?
When I say, change one thing, I don’t mean that you only focus on one thing for the entire year. I mean focus on one thing at a time.
Think of it in terms of multi-tasking. Some of us, like me, tend to do several things at once…thinking that we’re being SOOO productive. (Are you getting my sarcasm?!?!?!)
I will readily admit that when I focus on one thing at a time, I accomplish so much more. (In fact, I was watching Dateline while typing this post. I had to turn it off, so I could focus.)
The Butterfly Effect
Have you heard of the butterfly effect? Not the 2004 movie, but the actual theory. I don’t know all the ins and outs of it, but I want to describe it in my own words.
I would say that the Butterfly Effect is a theory that says if you change one thing, it can cause a ripple effect that leads to change in other areas.
Golden butterfly of change.
Step #1: Start Small
If you’re like me, there are a LOT of changes you want to make this year. Most of them are pretty significant. If we’re really going to change one thing at a time, it’s best to start small.
Choose something that is easy to master. For me, I chose water consumption. I have a giant water bottle that makes it super easy for me to track how water I drink every day.
Mastering that first thing helps you build momentum for future successes. Whether you track your progress for one week or six weeks, you’re one step closer to reaching your goals for the year.
Step #2: Keep Going
Once you’ve mastered that initial goal, don’t stop. Keep actively meeting that goal each day, while adding another one.
You’ll get to the point where those goals are part of your new lifestyle.
Hand flipping wooden cube block to change black left arrow direction and red right arrow for business and technology disruption sign concept.
Step #3: Take Your Time
Most of us spend a great deal of time at the end of the previous year, thinking about how we’re going to change things for next year. We get all the tools and materials, only to be disappointed when things don’t flow how we expected them to.
You may feel like you’re a month behind, but you’re still at the beginning of your journey.
If you haven’t accomplished anything in 2026 yet, that’s okay. We’ve got over 300 days left. Tomorrow is a brand new day…or you can start right now.
Don’t forget to weigh yourself!
Hopping on the Scale! Don’t forget to hop on the scale and see where you are this week. Remember: it’s just a number. Our weight fluctuates, so if it goes up, down or nowhere, we’re still AWESOME!
Imagine that you’re having a regular day just doing regular things. Maybe you’re at the grocery store reaching for something on a shelf. Perhaps you’re trying to slip a bag over your shoulder. Whatever you’re doing, it’s not that big of a deal. But all of a sudden a stabbing pain hits your shoulder. Nothing is worse than that. This brief article will highlight four tips for dealing with shoulder pain.
woman get accident between workout in gym shoulder pain and hurt with wrong posture exercise
I’ve been there before. In fact, I’m in the recovery phase right now. I don’t know exactly what I did to my shoulder. It could have something to do with my autoimmune disease. I dealt with my pain for a couple of months, but I don’t want you to have to do that. I’ve outlined four tips for dealing with shoulder pain that will help you out tremendously.
Tip #1: Take it Easy
The second you feel pain or even a bit of discomfort, it’s time to take a little break. Stop doing the things you normally do, especially if they cause any pain.
Having to readjust your exercise routine really stinks, but taking a short break to get things under control is much better than doing something that causes permanent damage.
Tip #2: Get Professional Help
We live in a time when a ton of people self-diagnose. We ask our friends what they think could be the problem. The internet is also how we try to help ourselves out. I know for a fact that there are tons of shoulder exercise video on YouTube and Facebook. I probably tried most of them. But since I didn’t exactly know what my problem was, those exercises made everything worse.
Whether you go to a medical doctor, a chiropractor, a physical therapist or a nurse practitioner, it is important to find a medical professional who can help you figure out what’s going on. Then they can give you the exercises that will help your condition.
Seeing a medical professional is one of the four tips for dealing with shoulder pain the easy way.
Tip #3: Do Your Exercises
Have you ever gotten an antibiotic prescription from your doctor? If so, do you remember what they told about the medication? They probably said something thing like, “You’re going to start feeling better within a day or two of starting this medication, but don’t stop taking it! You need to take all the medicine until it’s gone in order for it to be effective and do it’s job.”
The same can be said about doing your recovery or physical therapy exercises. You might feel a lot better after a week or two, but DON’T STOP. Keep doing those exercises and stretches. Hold off on those activities that cause pain and discomfort. Give it time and be consistent.
Tip #4: Consider Lifting Weights
This one will come as a shock to those who know me because I am such a strong supporter of and advocate for bodyweight training. I will always believe that you don’t NEED weights to get fit or get a good workout.
However, as I’ve faithfully done my shoulder exercises over the past few weeks, I’ve felt that I need something more. Using 5-pound dumbbells, I’ve followed the doctor’s advice and added a few sets of basic shoulder exercises, including the one pictured below. It’s all part of the process.
Woman doing shoulder exercises with weights.
Your Next Steps
Check in with your medical professional from time to time to see how things are progressing with your shoulder.
Once you’re feeling back to normal. Be sure to ease into those old activities. Don’t go overboard, though.
I’m finally getting back to the pool this week. I haven’t been able to swim since late August. Don’t worry…I’ll take my own advice and pace myself.
Don’t forget to weigh yourself!
Hopping on the Scale! Don’t forget to hop on the scale and see where you are this week. Remember: it’s just a number. Our weight fluctuates, so if it goes up, down or nowhere, we’re still AWESOME!
Living a healthy lifestyle isn’t easy. It takes a great deal of dedication and hard work. When you work hard, you want some type of reward for your labor, right? I’m pretty sure that’s why Cheat Days and Treat Days were created. But they’re not the same. Today we’ll be talking about Get Fit with Charity’s take on Cheat Days vs. Treat Days and discuss which is better,
Faceless black bearded man covered with tasty appetizing marshmallow drinks cocoktail has cheat day consumes much calories sweet food drowned in delicious snack. Unhealthy nutrition concept.
Cheat Days
Cheat Day for an adult is the equivalent to field day for the average elementary student. Most of us have fond memories of field day. It was a magical day that typically happened in late spring right before the end of the school year. You got to wear a summer outfit and although you were at school all day, it felt like extended recess, a field trip and summer vacation rolled into one.
That’s how Cheat Day feels. After sticking to a really hard exercise program, you get to cheat by not doing anything at all. Maybe you’ve been avoiding carbs for like…ever, so you indulge in all the bread and pasta you can eat. Perhaps you took last week’s cue and cut back on sugar but now you’re ready for some sugary goodness.
A cheat day allows you to eat whatever you want (or do whatever you want) without feeling guilty. Obviously your body might not like it, but you worked hard so you deserve it, right? If I’m being honest, I have say that I disagree with the concept of cheat days.
By definition, to cheat is to act dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage. If we’re trying to get fit and live healthy lifestyles, why would we cheat ourselves and potentially derail our progress? What kind of advantage would we gain from that? The way I see when it comes to Cheat Days, we’re only cheating ourselves.
Treat Days
Treat Day is enjoying your favorite dessert after eating all your vegetables at dinner. When I was a kid, I was an extremely picky eater. Most nights I spent hours at the dinner table by myself long after the meal was over because I refused to eat what was on my plate. One time my mother had a genius idea! She let me help her assembly these amazing Jell-O parfaits for dessert and told me that if I eat my dinner, I could have one of them. In fact, I got to make my own dessert!
That’s what Treat Day is. It’s a special reward, something you’ve worked really hard for. Generally speaking most treats are sweet, like maybe a cupcake or a snow cone. Although I’m really not in favor of rewarding myself with food, I do appreciate the concept of treating myself.
Woman customer on a ladder reaching for a novel at the bookshelves of the book shop
Cheat Day vs Treat Day: Which Is Better?
You probably know which one I think is better. I’m 100% Team Treat Day because I really don’t want to cut corners or be dishonest with myself. I’ve been unkind to my body for far too long, so I would rather treat myself. I want to be fully transparent and say that, there are times, like last week, when I treat myself to an ice cream bar, but I don’t make it a habit.
I know there are some Team Cheat Day folks out there who are thinking, “She is getting way too deep with this. There is nothing wrong with indulging every once in a while.” I am definitely not the authority on this. I’m simply sharing my opinions. I just don’t agree with Cheat Days…for me.
Don’t get mad at me, but I can’t answer my own question? Why not? I can only speak for myself and decide which one is better for me. You’ll have to do the same.
Whether you choose to celebrate with Cheat Days or Treat Days here are a few options that will help you stay on track and avoid derailing your progress.
Cheat Day Options
Treat Day Options
Opt for a Cheat Meal
Choose a fun activity
Go with an indulgent side
Spend extra time on your favorite hobby
Walk for 10 minutes instead of completely skipping the workout
Have spa day
Your Next Steps
Decide which route you wish to take: Cheat Day vs Treat Day.
Then own it…just don’t go overboard.
Hopping on the Scale! Don’t forget to hop on the scale and see where you are this week. Remember: it’s just a number. Our weight fluctuates, so if it goes up, down or nowhere, we’re still AWESOME!
About a month ago, I learned that July 23rd is World Sjögren’s (pronouced SHOW-grins) Day. When I realized that it falls on a Wednesday, it occurred to me that it’s the perfect way to relaunch my Weekly Wednesday Weigh-in!
If you’re new here the phrase “Weekly Wednesday Weigh-in” is a double entendre…only without the risqué element. Wednesday is the day of the week where I weigh in, as in give my opinion, on some topic related to health and fitness. It’s also the day that I encourage people to step on the scale to weigh themselves. (Honestly, I think you should weigh yourself every day, but that’s a story for another time.)
It may seem random for me mention that today is World Sjögren’s Day when I haven’t weighed in on any other type of medical condition. But this day focused on awareness of and education about Sjögren’s Disease, an autoimmune disease that many people haven’t heard of.
I figured the best person to talk about World Sjögren’s Day is someone who has Sjögren’s Disease…that would be me.
July 23. Hand writing text World Sjogren’s Day on calendar date. Save the date. Important date. Holiday. Day of the year concept.
Learning of My Sjögren’s Diagnosis
I learned of my diagnosis in 2023, but I was already familiar with a host of other autoimmune diseases and conditions. For as long as I can remember, I’ve had what I referred to as popsicle fingers and toes. When I got really cold, I lost circulation in my fingers and toes. The insides of my hands would go from a healthy looking color to white and then purple, and I couldn’t feel them. They were frozen, for lack of a better word. Thawing them out was a really painful process. I thought that happened to everyone, but it was just worse for me since I was really cold-natured.
One day a co-worker noticed my hands and said, “Oh! You have Raynaud’s!” I had no idea what she was talking about, but after doing a little research and getting tested, I learned that I did have Raynaud’s Syndrome, which is an autoimmune condition. When I get cold or have contact with cold objects, my circulatory system goes crazy and tells my brain to stop sending blood to my fingers and toes resulting in those popsicle fingers.
Upon receiving that diagnosis in 2005, my rheumatologist conducted further testing to see if Raynaud’s was a primary or secondary condition. He said that it’s rare that a person simply has one autoimmune condition. I disclosed that I had scalp psoriasis, but he still conducted further testing, and I tested positive for Lupus. Fast forward ten years, I was never diagnosed with full blown Lupus, but my ANA (antinuclear antibody) numbers were extremely high. Despite that super high number, my doctor at the time wasn’t concerned. He said that was just part of who I am.
I relocated to a different state in 2019 and let my new doctor know what the first doctor said about that high number. He accepted it without hesitation. Some time in late 2021, one of my sisters let me know that she has Alopecia, and asked if I’d been diagnosed. I’d always had hair growth issues, but had never been tested. I went to a dermatologist who confirmed that I have Alopecia Areata, but she wanted to know why. She really didn’t like that high ANA result, so she kept testing and discovered that I have Sjogren’s Disease. Believe it or not, I was relieved, because it answered so many questions for me.
What is Sjögren’s Disease?
According to The Sjögren’s Foundation, “Sjögren’s is a systemic autoimmune disease that affects the entire body. Along with symptoms of extensive dryness, other serious complications include profound fatigue, chronic pain, major organ involvement, neuropathies and lymphomas.”
As you may know, autoimmune diseases like Sjögren’s causes the body to attack itself. Though The Sjögren’s Foundation does provide a pretty comprehensive list of symptoms, they preface that section of their website by saying that each person with Sjögren’s experiences the disease differently. Some of the most common experiences and symptoms are featured in the image below. You’ll notice that one of the main symptoms is dryness of the eyes, nose, throat, mouth and skin.
As my doctor from over a decade ago indicated, it’s pretty rare for someone to only have Sjögren’s Disease. In fact The Sjögren’s Foundation has a list of the most common autoimmune diseases that accompany Sjögren’s. That list includes but is not limited to Lupus, Scleroderma, Raynaud’s, Sinusitis and Hypertension.
Sjogrens syndrome vector illustration. Dry body autoimmune disease. Labeled medical explanation with moisture producing glands. Symptoms, diagnosis and consequences.
Sjögren’s Disease and Me
As I mentioned earlier, when I learned of my Sjögren’s diagnosis a few years ago, I was relieved. That may seem strange to some people, especially after they learn what it is. However, it helped me understand what I was going through.
Prior to my diagnosis, I was beginning to feel like my body was falling apart. I had little very little energy, and I was exhausted all the time, but I couldn’t sleep very well. I had sinusitis so much that when I went to the doctor, I told them what was wrong and let them know what. My joints were hurting. I couldn’t run like a used. I’ve actually fallen a few times while teaching fitness classes. I would have nosebleeds at the most random times. There was pain, weakness and tingly sensations on left side of my body. I thought I was going crazy. But I wasn’t. I just had an autoimmune disease.
I also realized that my digestive issues, high blood pressure, Raynaud’s and nearly all of the other “random” things I had aren’t random. They are all tied to Sjögren’s Disease.
Autoimmune disorders diseases in human body. Symptoms of illness when the immune system attacks joints, blood, skin or internal organs. Medical poster with male silhouette flat vector illustration.
Living With an Invisible Disability
As someone who is living with an invisible disability, I’m learning to take care of myself and I’m also learning to advocate for myself.
I know that I don’t look like a person with a cluster of autoimmune diseases. In fact, my current doctor frequently says that my physical appearance doesn’t match my bloodwork. That’s how autoimmune diseases work. Many of us with Sjögren’s Disease suffer in silence because people don’t understand what we’re going through and we don’t look sick.
I want to be clear in stating that my symptoms haven’t changed, in fact, they’re a bit worse. I still have left side weakness. I’m exhausted most of the time. Something almost always hurts. I still have nosebleeds on occasion. It takes my body longer to recover after intense exercise, so I had to cut my fitness teaching schedule down from eight classes a week to three. The major difference is what I do. I’ve learned how to manage my symptoms.
There is no cure for Sjögren’s Disease, but there are certain things that I do to help with my symptoms.
I drink a TON of water to stay hydrate and help alleviate the dryness in my body.
I use eye drops and nasal drops, probably for obvious reasons.
I have a humidifier that I really need to use more often. I also have a small one for travelling.
I stretch every single day to keep my muscles and joints flexible.
I tend to wear my glasses way more than I wear my contacts because the contacts dry out my eyes.
I do at least 30 minutes of moderate to vigorous physical activity almost every day because it’s good for my heart, and it help me fight fatigue.
I consume far less caffeine, meat, sugar, and carbohydrates than I used to because I noticed that my body feels better and performs better when I use those things sparingly.
Most importantly, I listen to my body and rest when it tells me to.
Your Next Steps
Today is World Sjögren’s Day! It’s a day that’s devoted to bring awareness to an autoimmune disease that many don’t know about. You might not have Sjögren’s Disease, but now you know someone who does.
Please help me spread awareness by sharing this post.
Hopping on the Scale! Don’t forget to hop on the scale and see where you are this week. Remember: it’s just a number. Our weight fluctuates, so if it goes up, down or nowhere, we’re still AWESOME!
Did you know that there are three amazing benefits of fitness challenges?
Lately, I’ve been obsessed with fitness challenges. I introduced the 28 for 28 Challenge last month. Before that, I did a Firm It Up Challenge, although I didn’t mention it here. Sunday, I mentioned the March 2023 Flexibility Challenge that starts today!
About a week ago, I did a quick Google search because I wasn’t sure what I wanted my March challenge to be. I was surprised to see that there were a ton of fitness challenges out there. Although I didn’t opt for one of the challenges I saw, I couldn’t help but wonder why in the world there were so many fitness challenges.
Then it hit me: no one wants to do anything alone. I mean that’s precisely why I invited people to join my flexibility challenge.
When I thought about it a bit more, I realized there are three amazing benefits of fitness challenges .
Benefit #1: Community
We were built for community. Even the most introverted person needs to be around people every now and again. The same is true in the fitness world. People go to the gym, join teams and attend fitness class because they’re not alone.
It’s the same reason why people join fitness challenges: they want to do great thing and meet their fitness goals, but they want some help along the way. Even if they don’t meet in real life, people who participate in the same fitness challenges have a special camaraderie and build a sense of community. They can relate to one other.
Benefit #2: Accountability
Because there’s a built in community within fitness challenges, people will notice if you go silent or stop showing up. They may tease you or give you a hard time, but it’s all in good fun. As the saying goes, “misery loves company,”, so they want you to suffer with them.
The fact that you’re participating in a fitness challenge may actually encourage you to keep pushing and not miss a day because it feels like they’re watching. And you don’t want to let the team down.
Benefit #3: Contagious Success
When it comes to fitness challenges that have a strong sense of community and accountability, there is a great deal of posting and sharing personal success. When you see the success of those around you, it makes you strive for success.
Sometimes you want to catch up with them. Other times you want to surpass them. In all cases, seeing the success of other is something that spurs you on to be better.
Go All In
In order for you to get the most out of fitness challenges, you HAVE to go all in! Post your successes and your failures. Comment of other people’s post. Encourage those who started the journey but have been missing in action.
Whether you find the perfect fitness challenge online, create your own challenge or join me for my March 2023 Flexibility Challenge, do it full scale.
If you do want to join my Flexibility Challenge, please use the social media links below to register. Please note: since it’s alive stream class, the link will be different every day. However, you will get to participate for free all month if you use the student code…which won’t change.
Hopping on the Scale! Don’t forget to hop on the scale and see where you are this week. Remember: if you were able to maintain and not gain, that’s success!
Nearly a month ago, I introduced the 28 for 28 Challenge. I announced that my goal was to swim for 28 minutes every day in February. After my first week, I had to stop. I got really sick, and I learned that there are three reasons you should listen to your body.
The last thing I wanted to do was stop swimming. For seven days in a row, I’d woken up at 3:15 am in order to get to the Y, by 4:30 for my swim. I was developing a habit and feeling really proud of myself.
But something happened on Day 8. I could not get out of bed. It’s not like I just popped out of bed on the previous seven days, but I didn’t have it in me. So I slept in, and made plans to swim later that day. Unfortunately, as the day progressed, I felt worse and worse.
I was a sniffling, sneezing, runny nose mess, so there was no way I would be able to swim. In fact, I couldn’t swim for the next five days.
Motivated young woman pulling a red banner with success word overcoming a failure
Feeling Like a Failure
Needless to say, I felt like a failure. I was really disappointed that I couldn’t push through. I should have been able to make it.
Then it occurred to me that what I considered a failure was actually a major success. Why? Because I listened to my body.
That got me thinking about why that’s so important, and I came up with three reasons you should listen to your body.
Reason #1: Prevent Injury
When I was in college, my dad injured the same shoulder several times. One injury was the result of his job as a letter carrier. I’m not sure if that one could have been prevented. However, the other one was completely preventable.
My dad was known for being a sprinter. There were a few teenaged boys who challenged him to a race. He was in his late forties or early fifties at the time. In his own words, he knew that he had “no business racing a group of kids”. However, he chose to ignore what his body was telling him. As a result, he fell and injured his shoulder.
There are definitely times when it’s okay to push through. Sometimes we definitely need to challenge our fitness levels. However, if you’re thinking that you should hold back or avoid doing something: that just might be your body’s way of helping you prevent an injury.
Reason #2: Promote Healing
Did you know that too much activity simply isn’t good for you? If you were to do a simple google search, it wouldn’t take long for you to find thousands of articles illustrating that point.
Sometimes when you’re not feeling your workout, especially if you’re recovering from injury or getting over an illness, it could be your body’s way of letting you know that you need to take a little time to heal. It would re ally be a great idea to listen.
Reason #2: Preserve Rest
Sometimes I over do it. I’m committed to getting my own forty-five minutes of fitness, even on days when I teach multiple classes. I also work on new content for my classes each week, which requires more exercise.
Maybe that’s not something you can relate to, but I’m sure you might over do things, too. Maybe you go through seasons where you stay up too late, but you still wake up really early the next day. Or there’s so much going on that you get caught in the cycle of eating too much junk food or not eating at all.
During those time when we overdo it, we may still be committed to fitness. So we opt to workout, when we’re really too tired to do so.
It’s possible that our exhaustion is a signal from our body’s that we should take the time to get the rest that we need.
Being Good Listeners
Listening to your body isn’t always easy. Especially when you’re being prompted sit down and not do anything. The alternative is much worse. Pushing though when you need to stop, returning to activity before you’ve fully recovered or not getting adequate rest are all detrimental to our health. Ignoring our body’s messages about slowing down could result in permanent injury. No one wants that.
We have to learn how to listen…even if it means we won’t be able to meet an original goal. We’ll just have to revise the goal.
As for my 28 for 28 Challenge, I’m still in it. I had to double up a few days last week, but I’m all caught up now. I won’t swim 28 minutes every day, but it will average out. Hopefully, I won’t miss anymore days this month. But if my body lets me know I need to rest again, you better believe, I’m going to listen.
What about you?
Hopping on the Scale! Don’t forget to hop on the scale and see where you are this week. Remember: if you were able to maintain and not gain, that’s success!
How One Healthy Decision Creates Three Amazing Outcomes
If you haven’t been here long, you may not know that I believe that life is all about choices. The decisions we make are a direct result of those choices. And our lives are a reflection of those choices. I recently discovered how one healthy decision creates three amazing outcomes.
I’ll explain what I mean when I say “healthy decision” because those words could mean different things to different people. I’m pretty sure that all of us know what it means to make a decision However, it’s the word “healthy” that may be a bit confusing or ambiguous.
In short, when I use the word “healthy”, I’m referring to anything that has to do with your personal health. It could be financial health, mental health, physical health or nutritional health.
So when I say “healthy decision”, I mean an intentional choice to do something that will positively impact your health. However, it could also be an intentional choice to stop doing something that negatively impacts your health.
The Background
In October of 2022, I made a decision to drink more water. At the time, I had a half gallon jug that I carried pretty much everywhere. Unfortunately, at the end of the day, I hadn’t consumed much water. I felt like such a hypocrite. I was ALWAYS talking about drinking more water. But I wasn’t doing what I told others to do.
I won’t get too deep into the steps I took, but I figured it out. I can’t say that I drink half a gallon of water every day, but I do drink way more water than I did last fall.
That one healthy decision – to drink more water – has created three outcomes that I didn’t expect. First, I’ll tell you what I looked like for me. Then I’ll explain how it could look for you.
Fitness background with bottle of water, apple, dumbbells, nuts, and tape measure on pink table
More Movement
Initially, the idea of drinking half a gallon of water each day was intimidating, but now it’s extremely attainable. Since I met that goal, I looked for more ways to challenge myself. I decided on a movement goal: 45 minutes of personal exercise each day.
I’m a fitness instructor who teaches six to eight classes, but when I’m teaching I’m not exercising. That’s not my time.
Finding time to get my personal workout done is impossible. I have to MAKE the time, to wake up early or move things around in my schedule to get it done. There are times when it doesn’t happen, but most of the time, it does.
More Rest
When I decided to get more exercise, I realized that would only happen if I woke up earlier eat day. That meant I would have to go to bed a little earlier, so I could wake and exercise at the beginning of the day.
Sleeping in means I won’t have time to work out early. If I don’t make time in the morning, I can almost guarantee that it won’t happen for me later in the day.
Because I know what time I need to get up in order to get to the gym in time for my swim or get out the door for my run, I know that I have to be in bed by a certain time in order for me to get the amount of sleep that I need. So I’m actually getting more rest than I did this time a year ago, even a few months ago.
Better Food Choices
Since I’m exercising more, I’m actually a lot hungrier than I have been, and that makes sense. I’m burning more calories, so my body needs more fuel to sustain itself. I find that I’m gravitating toward foods that are rich in fiber, anti-inflammatory and full of nutrients.
I want foods that are going to stick with me not bring my energy levels up way high before sending them crashing down. I’m not saying that I never eat junk food, but I’m more interested in the good stuff nowadays.
Will It Work For You?
If you had sat me down a few back in November and told me that I come mid-February, I’d be experiencing a snowball effect healthy outcomes based on my decision to drink more water, I wouldn’t have believed you. I think it will work for you to.
Please don’t misunderstand me. I’m not saying that if you decide to drink more water, you will have the exact same three positive outcomes that I have.
I am saying that positive healthy choices propel you forward and provide stepping stones that snowball into other things.
For example, suppose your healthy decision is to spend one less hour scrolling through social media each night. Maybe you use the extra time to pick up a hobby that you put down . That could lead to a clearer mind and better self-awareness.
The outcomes aren’t the focus; it’s the healthy decision that starts the ball rolling.
So figure it out. What’s that one healthy decision you’ve been putting off? Take care of that. Focus on that decision and only that decision. Before long, you’ll find yourself surrounded by more positive outcomes than you can count.
As always, I’m here to help if you need me.
Hopping on the Scale! Don’t forget to hop on the scale and see where you are this week. Remember: if you were able to maintain and not gain, that’s success!
I was always that if you eat after 8:00 pm, you’ll gain weight. Your body simply won’t have time to burn off the calories before you go to sleep.
As a result, I went to bed without eating quite often. However, I’d wake up between 11 pm and 2 pm, ravenously hungry. Then head to the kitchen to get something to eat, not caring where the calories went. I should note that eating after 8:00 pm didn’t cause me to gain weight.
Who Placed Deadlines on Daily Meals?
I’m not sure who came up with the magical time of 8:00 pm for evening meals to cease. I’m guessing it was a dietician or doctor who conducted a study. I would bet that the findings were for a specific group of people. It probably also had something to do with when people went to bed.
Someone probably took those results and applied them to the general population. Because the statement was backed by science, people assumed it had to be true for all people. But I would counter that.
As I’ve mentioned before, every exercise isn’t for everybody. In like manner, every bit of nutrition advice isn’t for every one either.
Why Am I So Hungry At Night?
Before we go any further, let’s discuss a few reasons that you may be hungry when you’re winding down for the day. There are two many reasons.
You’re actually thirsty.
I think I’ve mentioned this before, but the body doesn’t have a clear signal to let you know that you’re thirsty. Sometimes your stomach growls when you’re in need of liquids, but you think you’re hungry.
If it’s later in the evening and you feel hungry, drink 12 to 16 ounces of water and then wait 20 minutes. If the hunger returns, follow the guidelines listed later in this post. If if doesn’t, head to bed. You were just thirsty.
You’re under your calorie count for the day.
If you count your calories, then you know precisely how much you can eat at any point in the day. However, if you’re not a calorie counter, you may be surprised that you’re hungry at an odd time.
If you’re significantly under your calorie consumption for the day, your body will let you know. But you shouldn’t just eat anything.
Balance is the Key
I think everyone knows that they key to a healthy lifestyle is balance. Whether we’re discussing your work/life balance, a balanced diet or making time for both friends and family. Too much of one thing – good or bad – simply isn’t healthy.
If you’re wondering, “Can I eat after 8:00 pm?” The answer is, “Yes.”
If your next question is, “Won’t that make me gain weight?” The answer is, “It depends?”
What you choose to eat after 8:00 pm is just as important as what you chose to eat at 1:30 pm.
When choosing something to eat later at night, consider the foods that you’ve eaten through out the day. You may also opt for something healthy, like fruits or nuts.
Choosing What to Eat After 8:00 pm
If you’ve determined that you need to eat something after 8:00 pm, choose wisely.
If you have left over chicken fried rice or lobster ravioli, those might be a little too heavy if you’re going straight to bed. However, if that’s what you have a taste for, perhaps you could take a couple of bites and drink 8 ounces of water.
The best options for eating later at night are fresh fruits and vegetables along with some thing light.
Gaining weight if you eat after 8:00 pm doesn’t have to happen. If you make healthy eating choices for those late night cravings, you’ll be just fine!
Hopping on the Scale! Don’t forget to hop on the scale and see where you are this week. Remember: if you were able to maintain and not gain, that’s success!
I sense the quizzical looks and imagining that you’re trying to figure out what that means. You have way too many things to accomplish to be trying to change one thing at a time. You’re a masterful multi-tasker like me, right?
Just hang tight! I promise that you will see how important it is to change one thing at a time very soon.
Road-Trip Reading
I read a ton…like a lot. Admittedly, my day job as a librarian at an elementary school is one of the reasons I’m such an avid reader. However, I fell in love with the written word LONG before I became a library media specialist.
Because I always have an incredibly long list of books to read, there are times when I opt for an audiobook rather than books with pages.
Just so we’re clear: listening to an audiobook still counts as reading a physical book. I haven’t quite figure out how it’s possible, but whenever I finish a book – whether digital or physical – I have the same smack your lips, {{deep-sigh}}, -that was SO good feeling.
In December of 2022, I finished my road-trip book. I’m not sure why I only read (or listened to) it when I drove out of town, but I did. The book was Girl, Stop Apologizing, by Rachel Hollis.
Embracing and Achieving Your Goals
I’d been reading that book for over a year, but I’d honestly forgotten about it. It’s not that I didn’t take and road trips during that time. It simply slipped my mind. Until this Christmas. i didn’t realize it at the time, but that book was the perfect way for me to end the year.
For a ton of people, including me, the month of December is rather reflective. We celebrate about our successes. We consider missed opportunities. We contemplate our next big steps. We beat ourselves up about our failures. And we start planning our next moves. We make goals or resolutions for the new year and promise ourselves that things will be much better.
That’s what I did the whole time I read/listened to that book. I was actually a bit overwhelmed by everything I wanted to do…until Rachel said three words, “Change one thing.” In short, you can’t do everything at once, so change one thing now. Let that be your focus. When you’ve mastered that thing or you’re ready for more, just add the next thing.
Change One Thing
Those three words breathed life into me, and they made me think about you.
Nearly every day, I talk to someone who isn’t happy with their life the way it is. I’m not saying that everyone is down in the dumps, but I don’t know very many people are 100% okay with thing they way that they are right.
We’re already half way through the first month of the new year, and I would bet all the money in my bank account right now that someone reading this has spoken to someone who vowed to do at least one of the following in 2023:
Lose weight
Exercise more
Eat healthier
Improve relationships
Get more rest
Read more
Binge less shows
Drink more water
Can You Relate?
Did you see yourself on that list? If so, you’re not alone.
I know what it’s like to have so many goals and plans that you have no clue how to pull off.
That’s why I’m here. And I’ll tell you what Rachel told me, “Change one thing.”
What’s Your Thing?
So what are you going to change this month? It doesn’t have to be huge, but it should help you move closer to meeting your goal or resolution.
Did you resolve to get more rest? Then get to bed five minutes earlier each night for the next month.
Do you want to drink more water? Place a glass or bottle of water close to your alarm, so you drink 16 ounces as soon as you wake up in the morning.
Are you trying to fit more exercise into your day? You could split your lunch break in half: eat for the first half and walk either indoor or outdoors for the second half.
I can’t prove it, but I think that if you change one thing at a time, it will give you the push you need to have the best year possible.
Hopping on the Scale! Don’t forget to hop on the scale and see where you are this week. Remember: if you were able to maintain and not gain, that’s success!
On Sunday, August 29, 2021, I completed my twelfth triathlon. A short time later, I found myself wondering, “Do you know the true definition of success?”
You might think that I was overcome with joy when I crossed the finish line. You’d be wrong, though. I was discouraged and completely disappointed in myself. In fact, I cried – not once…not twice…but three times within 90 minutes of completing the race. I felt like a total failure.
I know that sounds weird. I’m sure it’s hard to understand how someone who swam a mile, rode a bike 26 miles and ran a 10K could feel like a complete failure. So I’ll try to explain as best as I can.
A Little Bit of Background Info
I’d trained for that race for several months. For me, the hardest part of the race is the swim, so that was the main focus of my training. I wanted to be comfortable in the water. Like so comfortable that nothing would faze me. The week before the race, I felt really confident. Two days before the race, I had my final swim, and I felt pretty comfortable. I set a goal. I just KNEW that I was going to have the best swim of my life, that my bike ride would be consistent, and that I would own the run. But none of that actually happened.
Long story short, I had the worst swim and the slowest run out of all my previous triathlons. I didn’t come anywhere close to reaching my goal, so I felt like a failure. However, when people asked how it went and how I felt, they seemed surprised by my response. They all said something like, “What are you talking about?! You did great! You finished the race!”
That made me look inside myself and ask, “Do you know the true definition of success?”
What is the Definition of Success?
If you were to walk up to four different people and say, “Do you know the true definition of success?”, it’s highly likely that each of them would give a totally different definition that makes perfect sense. For our discussion, we’ll head over to Google since it’s very simple.
The first thing that comes up when you Google “definition of success” is, “the accomplishment of an aim or purpose”.
That’s it. It’s just that simple. To accomplish (or complete) something is the very definition of success.
If it’s that simple, why in the world have I been feeling so badly about my performance?
Can You Relate?
I’m sure that someone can relate to feeling like a failure while everyone else celebrates your success.
Maybe you intended to wake up early enough to get to the 5:30 am class at the YMCA Monday, Wednesday and Friday, but you were only able to make it on Wednesday. The instructor was super excited to see you when you came, but you’re embarrassed that you only made it once after saying you’d be there all week.
Perhaps you have a five pound weight loss goal, but you didn’t lose anything at all. Your personal trainer is excited because you were able to maintain your weight for an entire week, but you’re extremely disappointed because the numbers didn’t go down.
It’s possible that your challenge has nothing to do with health and fitness, but there’s some area in your life that your friends and loved ones celebrate, while you’re tempted to give up because things are just that bad in your eyes.
Keep It In Perspective
If you’re with me on any of that, my words to you are precisely what I’ve been telling myself for the past few days: success is success. Each small victory is a stepping stone to a larger victory. Every single success should be celebrated rather than placed on a scale that measures its importance.
I can’t prove it, but I think that truly embracing that all success is success would lead us to have more fulfilled lives.
Hopping on the Scale! Don’t forget to hop on the scale and see where you are this week. Remember: if you were able to maintain and not gain, that’s success!
