Imagine that you’re having a regular day just doing regular things. Maybe you’re at the grocery store reaching for something on a shelf. Perhaps you’re trying to slip a bag over your shoulder. Whatever you’re doing, it’s not that big of a deal. But all of a sudden a stabbing pain hits your shoulder. Nothing is worse than that. This brief article will highlight four tips for dealing with shoulder pain.
woman get accident between workout in gym shoulder pain and hurt with wrong posture exercise
I’ve been there before. In fact, I’m in the recovery phase right now. I don’t know exactly what I did to my shoulder. It could have something to do with my autoimmune disease. I dealt with my pain for a couple of months, but I don’t want you to have to do that. I’ve outlined four tips for dealing with shoulder pain that will help you out tremendously.
Tip #1: Take it Easy
The second you feel pain or even a bit of discomfort, it’s time to take a little break. Stop doing the things you normally do, especially if they cause any pain.
Having to readjust your exercise routine really stinks, but taking a short break to get things under control is much better than doing something that causes permanent damage.
Tip #2: Get Professional Help
We live in a time when a ton of people self-diagnose. We ask our friends what they think could be the problem. The internet is also how we try to help ourselves out. I know for a fact that there are tons of shoulder exercise video on YouTube and Facebook. I probably tried most of them. But since I didn’t exactly know what my problem was, those exercises made everything worse.
Whether you go to a medical doctor, a chiropractor, a physical therapist or a nurse practitioner, it is important to find a medical professional who can help you figure out what’s going on. Then they can give you the exercises that will help your condition.
Seeing a medical professional is one of the four tips for dealing with shoulder pain the easy way.
Tip #3: Do Your Exercises
Have you ever gotten an antibiotic prescription from your doctor? If so, do you remember what they told about the medication? They probably said something thing like, “You’re going to start feeling better within a day or two of starting this medication, but don’t stop taking it! You need to take all the medicine until it’s gone in order for it to be effective and do it’s job.”
The same can be said about doing your recovery or physical therapy exercises. You might feel a lot better after a week or two, but DON’T STOP. Keep doing those exercises and stretches. Hold off on those activities that cause pain and discomfort. Give it time and be consistent.
Tip #4: Consider Lifting Weights
This one will come as a shock to those who know me because I am such a strong supporter of and advocate for bodyweight training. I will always believe that you don’t NEED weights to get fit or get a good workout.
However, as I’ve faithfully done my shoulder exercises over the past few weeks, I’ve felt that I need something more. Using 5-pound dumbbells, I’ve followed the doctor’s advice and added a few sets of basic shoulder exercises, including the one pictured below. It’s all part of the process.
Woman doing shoulder exercises with weights.
Your Next Steps
Check in with your medical professional from time to time to see how things are progressing with your shoulder.
Once you’re feeling back to normal. Be sure to ease into those old activities. Don’t go overboard, though.
I’m finally getting back to the pool this week. I haven’t been able to swim since late August. Don’t worry…I’ll take my own advice and pace myself.
Don’t forget to weigh yourself!
Hopping on the Scale! Don’t forget to hop on the scale and see where you are this week. Remember: it’s just a number. Our weight fluctuates, so if it goes up, down or nowhere, we’re still AWESOME!
Living a healthy lifestyle isn’t easy. It takes a great deal of dedication and hard work. When you work hard, you want some type of reward for your labor, right? I’m pretty sure that’s why Cheat Days and Treat Days were created. But they’re not the same. Today we’ll be talking about Get Fit with Charity’s take on Cheat Days vs. Treat Days and discuss which is better,
Faceless black bearded man covered with tasty appetizing marshmallow drinks cocoktail has cheat day consumes much calories sweet food drowned in delicious snack. Unhealthy nutrition concept.
Cheat Days
Cheat Day for an adult is the equivalent to field day for the average elementary student. Most of us have fond memories of field day. It was a magical day that typically happened in late spring right before the end of the school year. You got to wear a summer outfit and although you were at school all day, it felt like extended recess, a field trip and summer vacation rolled into one.
That’s how Cheat Day feels. After sticking to a really hard exercise program, you get to cheat by not doing anything at all. Maybe you’ve been avoiding carbs for like…ever, so you indulge in all the bread and pasta you can eat. Perhaps you took last week’s cue and cut back on sugar but now you’re ready for some sugary goodness.
A cheat day allows you to eat whatever you want (or do whatever you want) without feeling guilty. Obviously your body might not like it, but you worked hard so you deserve it, right? If I’m being honest, I have say that I disagree with the concept of cheat days.
By definition, to cheat is to act dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage. If we’re trying to get fit and live healthy lifestyles, why would we cheat ourselves and potentially derail our progress? What kind of advantage would we gain from that? The way I see when it comes to Cheat Days, we’re only cheating ourselves.
Treat Days
Treat Day is enjoying your favorite dessert after eating all your vegetables at dinner. When I was a kid, I was an extremely picky eater. Most nights I spent hours at the dinner table by myself long after the meal was over because I refused to eat what was on my plate. One time my mother had a genius idea! She let me help her assembly these amazing Jell-O parfaits for dessert and told me that if I eat my dinner, I could have one of them. In fact, I got to make my own dessert!
That’s what Treat Day is. It’s a special reward, something you’ve worked really hard for. Generally speaking most treats are sweet, like maybe a cupcake or a snow cone. Although I’m really not in favor of rewarding myself with food, I do appreciate the concept of treating myself.
Woman customer on a ladder reaching for a novel at the bookshelves of the book shop
Cheat Day vs Treat Day: Which Is Better?
You probably know which one I think is better. I’m 100% Team Treat Day because I really don’t want to cut corners or be dishonest with myself. I’ve been unkind to my body for far too long, so I would rather treat myself. I want to be fully transparent and say that, there are times, like last week, when I treat myself to an ice cream bar, but I don’t make it a habit.
I know there are some Team Cheat Day folks out there who are thinking, “She is getting way too deep with this. There is nothing wrong with indulging every once in a while.” I am definitely not the authority on this. I’m simply sharing my opinions. I just don’t agree with Cheat Days…for me.
Don’t get mad at me, but I can’t answer my own question? Why not? I can only speak for myself and decide which one is better for me. You’ll have to do the same.
Whether you choose to celebrate with Cheat Days or Treat Days here are a few options that will help you stay on track and avoid derailing your progress.
Cheat Day Options
Treat Day Options
Opt for a Cheat Meal
Choose a fun activity
Go with an indulgent side
Spend extra time on your favorite hobby
Walk for 10 minutes instead of completely skipping the workout
Have spa day
Your Next Steps
Decide which route you wish to take: Cheat Day vs Treat Day.
Then own it…just don’t go overboard.
Hopping on the Scale! Don’t forget to hop on the scale and see where you are this week. Remember: it’s just a number. Our weight fluctuates, so if it goes up, down or nowhere, we’re still AWESOME!
I’m guilty! You probably are, too! Guilty of what, you ask? Eating foods you know good and well you need to leave alone. After the last time I did it, I realized that I just can’t do it any more. I didn’t jot anything down at the time, but I later realized that I’d created a system that any one can follow. I’m calling it five steps to stop eating foods that your mouth loves but your body hates.
I think it’s pretty safe to say that everyone has some type of food that they should avoid for a variety of reasons. I’m not really referring to food allergies here, though. For those us with food allergies, we know what consuming something we’re allergic to can do. Typically, we avoid those foods at all costs…unless the reaction is minor.
I’m talking about people who have developed intolerances to food that they used to be able to eat with no problem. Or someone who has hypertension, so they really need to avoid foods that will elevate their blood pressure. There could be someone with indigestion, acid reflux or irritable bowel syndrome who needs to be careful.
I could keep going, but I’m sure you get the point. There are people from all walks of life who have grown quite comfortable eating foods that they shouldn’t, and they suffer the consequences. We see them, and we know them. We might even be them.
There’s that one guy who can’t resist getting a Rocky Road Milkshake when he’s knows it’s going to tear up his stomach.
How about the girl who loves the sweet, spicy and savory song that Jamaican Jerk Chicken plays on her tongue, knowing that her chest will feel like it’s on fire soon after she’s done?
Or me if I decided to raid that candy stash at work before deciding that I’d rather be able to move freely than eat that much sugar.
When I talked about how to kick your sugar habit last week, I didn’t realize that I’d followed specific steps that can work for anyone who needs to release a certain food for the betterment of their body. I’ll list them in order before breaking them down.
Five Steps to Stop Eating Foods that Your Mouth Loves but Your Body Hates
Choose an Accountability Measure
Pause and Think
Consider the Outcome
Find an Alternative
Broadcast Your Success
1. Choose an Accountability Measure
If you know that you’re going to struggle, you need to start by finding someone or something that will hold you accountable.
Choose a person. Make a chart. Do something that will keep you motivated.
It doesn’t have to be major, but make it something that will keep you on track.
2. Pause and Think
I think this is where most of us mess up…at least that’s the case for me. Sometimes we grab for things because they’re right there. Or we’re bored. We might even be a bit stressed. But it’s really important to stop, think, and maybe have a conversation with yourself…literally…like talk to yourself out loud even if others can hear you.
Things to ask yourself: Is this the right time for me to be eating this? Do I even really want this? Why do I feel like I have to have this right now. Maybe there’s something else I can do instead of eat this. I’m going to leave this here for now; if it’s still here when I get back, maybe I’ll get it?
It’s highly likely that after you’ve had an indepth conversation with yourself about all that, you won’t even want the thing anymore. If you’re still thinking about it, move to the next step.
Following the Five Steps will help you avoid this level of discomfort.
3. Consider the Outcome
Really think about how you’re going to feel if you do this. Will it set you back? Will you need to take time off work or have to spend time alone when your family is having fun because of that you’re about to eat. Is it even worth it?
Before you eat that thing consider what’s going to happen: heartburn, hives, gas, migraines?
Is it worth it? Probably not, so put it down. And walk away.
4. Find an Alternative
There’s always another option, a better option. Avoid the candy dish. Buy healthy treats. Take a walk. Chew some gum. Eat a carrot. Drink some water.
I know some of those are silly, but if you know that you’re going to be tempted when you’re out with friends you have two options: either eat the thing and suffer the consequences or come prepared with an alternative.
I actually thought of a third option – not hanging out with your friends, but that wouldn’t work for most people.
5. Broadcast Your Success
Those you know you know your struggle. They’re the ones looking at you with concern when you’re about to eat something even they know you shouldn’t eat. They probably don’t like the idea of you being in pain, and I bet they wonder why you keep doing it to yourself.
When you get to that point where you’re done eating those things, let people know.
Can you imagine how proud of you they’ll be with you just say know to the foods your body hates. Who knows? It might even make them more conscious of the places they go. They may avoid certain place when they hang with you because they want you to continue making positive food choices.
Will she follow the five steps to stop eating foods that your mouth loves but your body hates?
Stay the Course
Food is really comforting. Sometimes it feels nice to let you tastebuds take you down memory lane and travel back to a time and place where life was just easier. Unfortunately, those comfort taste can result in extreme discomfort for some of us.
I know it’s hard. Seriously, I do! I wanted a cupcake so badly yesterday, but I got a pedicure instead.
Having these five steps to stop eating foods that your mouth loves but your body hates is our first pathway to success.. You can do this! We can do this.
About a month ago, I learned that July 23rd is World Sjögren’s (pronouced SHOW-grins) Day. When I realized that it falls on a Wednesday, it occurred to me that it’s the perfect way to relaunch my Weekly Wednesday Weigh-in!
If you’re new here the phrase “Weekly Wednesday Weigh-in” is a double entendre…only without the risqué element. Wednesday is the day of the week where I weigh in, as in give my opinion, on some topic related to health and fitness. It’s also the day that I encourage people to step on the scale to weigh themselves. (Honestly, I think you should weigh yourself every day, but that’s a story for another time.)
It may seem random for me mention that today is World Sjögren’s Day when I haven’t weighed in on any other type of medical condition. But this day focused on awareness of and education about Sjögren’s Disease, an autoimmune disease that many people haven’t heard of.
I figured the best person to talk about World Sjögren’s Day is someone who has Sjögren’s Disease…that would be me.
July 23. Hand writing text World Sjogren’s Day on calendar date. Save the date. Important date. Holiday. Day of the year concept.
Learning of My Sjögren’s Diagnosis
I learned of my diagnosis in 2023, but I was already familiar with a host of other autoimmune diseases and conditions. For as long as I can remember, I’ve had what I referred to as popsicle fingers and toes. When I got really cold, I lost circulation in my fingers and toes. The insides of my hands would go from a healthy looking color to white and then purple, and I couldn’t feel them. They were frozen, for lack of a better word. Thawing them out was a really painful process. I thought that happened to everyone, but it was just worse for me since I was really cold-natured.
One day a co-worker noticed my hands and said, “Oh! You have Raynaud’s!” I had no idea what she was talking about, but after doing a little research and getting tested, I learned that I did have Raynaud’s Syndrome, which is an autoimmune condition. When I get cold or have contact with cold objects, my circulatory system goes crazy and tells my brain to stop sending blood to my fingers and toes resulting in those popsicle fingers.
Upon receiving that diagnosis in 2005, my rheumatologist conducted further testing to see if Raynaud’s was a primary or secondary condition. He said that it’s rare that a person simply has one autoimmune condition. I disclosed that I had scalp psoriasis, but he still conducted further testing, and I tested positive for Lupus. Fast forward ten years, I was never diagnosed with full blown Lupus, but my ANA (antinuclear antibody) numbers were extremely high. Despite that super high number, my doctor at the time wasn’t concerned. He said that was just part of who I am.
I relocated to a different state in 2019 and let my new doctor know what the first doctor said about that high number. He accepted it without hesitation. Some time in late 2021, one of my sisters let me know that she has Alopecia, and asked if I’d been diagnosed. I’d always had hair growth issues, but had never been tested. I went to a dermatologist who confirmed that I have Alopecia Areata, but she wanted to know why. She really didn’t like that high ANA result, so she kept testing and discovered that I have Sjogren’s Disease. Believe it or not, I was relieved, because it answered so many questions for me.
What is Sjögren’s Disease?
According to The Sjögren’s Foundation, “Sjögren’s is a systemic autoimmune disease that affects the entire body. Along with symptoms of extensive dryness, other serious complications include profound fatigue, chronic pain, major organ involvement, neuropathies and lymphomas.”
As you may know, autoimmune diseases like Sjögren’s causes the body to attack itself. Though The Sjögren’s Foundation does provide a pretty comprehensive list of symptoms, they preface that section of their website by saying that each person with Sjögren’s experiences the disease differently. Some of the most common experiences and symptoms are featured in the image below. You’ll notice that one of the main symptoms is dryness of the eyes, nose, throat, mouth and skin.
As my doctor from over a decade ago indicated, it’s pretty rare for someone to only have Sjögren’s Disease. In fact The Sjögren’s Foundation has a list of the most common autoimmune diseases that accompany Sjögren’s. That list includes but is not limited to Lupus, Scleroderma, Raynaud’s, Sinusitis and Hypertension.
Sjogrens syndrome vector illustration. Dry body autoimmune disease. Labeled medical explanation with moisture producing glands. Symptoms, diagnosis and consequences.
Sjögren’s Disease and Me
As I mentioned earlier, when I learned of my Sjögren’s diagnosis a few years ago, I was relieved. That may seem strange to some people, especially after they learn what it is. However, it helped me understand what I was going through.
Prior to my diagnosis, I was beginning to feel like my body was falling apart. I had little very little energy, and I was exhausted all the time, but I couldn’t sleep very well. I had sinusitis so much that when I went to the doctor, I told them what was wrong and let them know what. My joints were hurting. I couldn’t run like a used. I’ve actually fallen a few times while teaching fitness classes. I would have nosebleeds at the most random times. There was pain, weakness and tingly sensations on left side of my body. I thought I was going crazy. But I wasn’t. I just had an autoimmune disease.
I also realized that my digestive issues, high blood pressure, Raynaud’s and nearly all of the other “random” things I had aren’t random. They are all tied to Sjögren’s Disease.
Autoimmune disorders diseases in human body. Symptoms of illness when the immune system attacks joints, blood, skin or internal organs. Medical poster with male silhouette flat vector illustration.
Living With an Invisible Disability
As someone who is living with an invisible disability, I’m learning to take care of myself and I’m also learning to advocate for myself.
I know that I don’t look like a person with a cluster of autoimmune diseases. In fact, my current doctor frequently says that my physical appearance doesn’t match my bloodwork. That’s how autoimmune diseases work. Many of us with Sjögren’s Disease suffer in silence because people don’t understand what we’re going through and we don’t look sick.
I want to be clear in stating that my symptoms haven’t changed, in fact, they’re a bit worse. I still have left side weakness. I’m exhausted most of the time. Something almost always hurts. I still have nosebleeds on occasion. It takes my body longer to recover after intense exercise, so I had to cut my fitness teaching schedule down from eight classes a week to three. The major difference is what I do. I’ve learned how to manage my symptoms.
There is no cure for Sjögren’s Disease, but there are certain things that I do to help with my symptoms.
I drink a TON of water to stay hydrate and help alleviate the dryness in my body.
I use eye drops and nasal drops, probably for obvious reasons.
I have a humidifier that I really need to use more often. I also have a small one for travelling.
I stretch every single day to keep my muscles and joints flexible.
I tend to wear my glasses way more than I wear my contacts because the contacts dry out my eyes.
I do at least 30 minutes of moderate to vigorous physical activity almost every day because it’s good for my heart, and it help me fight fatigue.
I consume far less caffeine, meat, sugar, and carbohydrates than I used to because I noticed that my body feels better and performs better when I use those things sparingly.
Most importantly, I listen to my body and rest when it tells me to.
Your Next Steps
Today is World Sjögren’s Day! It’s a day that’s devoted to bring awareness to an autoimmune disease that many don’t know about. You might not have Sjögren’s Disease, but now you know someone who does.
Please help me spread awareness by sharing this post.
Hopping on the Scale! Don’t forget to hop on the scale and see where you are this week. Remember: it’s just a number. Our weight fluctuates, so if it goes up, down or nowhere, we’re still AWESOME!
Kick Your Sugar Addiction text on notepad, concept background
Three Strategies to Finally Kick Your Sugar Habit Forever
I have a sweet tooth…a HUGE one. Sugar is my biggest weakness. Sometimes I think of myself as client and tell myself, “You really need to kick your sugar habit.”
This has been a struggle for a really long while. About 15 years ago, I tested positive for Lupus, and my doctor wanted to discuss treatment plans. I wasn’t interested in taking more medications, so I went to someone else for a second opinion. That physician suggested an elimination diet to determine if my symptoms were the result of what I was eating. He told me to eat a diet that consisted of no meat, no grains, no dairy, no caffeine and no refined sugar. I literally said, “Umm…sugary substance is my main food group.” (He didn’t think that was funny.)
As I’ve gotten older and have learned of some major health issues that I have, I’ve come to see the need to kick my sugar habit forever. I wanted to share my strategies with you.
Quit Cold Turkey
Sometimes the best way to kick your sugar habit is to just stop eating sugar. Don’t schedule a day to start a sugar detox. Or have one last sugar binge. Just stop.
I’m sure the people close to you are aware of your love of sugar, so you might want to let them know of your recent decision. Feel free to ask them to hold you accountable.
I actually did this a few months ago. I let my family members and co-workers know that I was not allowing myself to eat any candy other than peppermints. I was really surprised at how successful it was. Knowing that people were going to ask me about my candy consumption really motivated me to stay away.
My only regret was that I didn’t include baked goods in that phase of kicking my sugar habit.
Portrait of woman wearing sportswear while refusing to eat sweet food by kicking a pile of donuts
Stop Buying (and Baking) Treats
This strategy for kicking your sugar habit seems pretty obvious, right? I mean, if you don’t buy the cupcakes, they won’t be in the house, so you won’t eat them! And if you don’t bake the cookies…well, you get the idea.
I don’t know what happens to you when you bake or buy treats, but I can tell you what happens to me. I’m fortunate in that I have food allergies. Why is that GOOD thing? I don’t have as many options for baked good and sweet treats as the average person. Unfortunately, I still have plenty of options.
After giving up candy for a while, I bought a package of my favorite gluten free vanilla sandwich cookies. That package should have last me at least a week, if I only consumed one serving size a day. Sadly, that’s not what happened. It pains me to say this, but those cookies were gone within 36 hours. The same thing happens when I bake cookies.
Whether I bake them or buy them, I plan to eat a few and give the rest away. However, once they make contact with my taste buds, it’s like my brain can’t stop. I’ve learned that it’s just best for me to stop buying them and stop baking them.
Consume Natural Sugars Instead
All sugars aren’t created equally. Eating a banana and an apple every day can result in amazing things happening in your body. However eating banana laffy taffy and caramel apple suckers everyday, might not be so good for you.
I’ve discovered that switching that my brain and taste buds don’t know the difference between natural sugars and refined sugars. To them sweets are sweets. So when I make a smoothie out of frozen fruit, pineapple juice and a tablespoon of honey, I’m able to satisfy that sugar craving in a way that’s actually helpful for my body.
Sometimes I freeze blueberries and pop them in my mouth like their skittles. My brain may think that I’m tasting the rainbow, but I’m loading up on antioxidants that are going to help reduce inflammation in my body. It’s a total win-win.
Choose What Works for You
I hope this post doesn’t make you think that I’ve conquered my sugar habit complete. It’s still a work in progress. I’ve been doing this in three phases as outlined above.
Do I still eat candy? Not often. I know that when I have a piece of candy – any candy – there’s like a little trigger in my brain that need more and more and MORE. If I really want some candy, I opt for sugar free gum. It’s sweet and only about 5 or 10 calories, so it’s not terrible for me.
What about baked goods? I can’t remember the last time I baked something. Come Christmas, I know that I’ll bake my signature peppermint sugar cookies, but I may do that a family members home, so the cookies can stay with them. On occasion, I may buy a slice of cake or a cookie from a local gluten free spot. However, I’ve noticed that my tastes are changing, and I don’t really care for those treats any more.
Natural sugars seem to be my sweet spot. (No pun intended.) I’ve even discovered lemon blueberry muffin Greek yogurt that’s delightfully tasty and much better for me than any muffin could.
If you need (or want) to finally kick your sugar habit forever and you don’t know where to start, pick one the options and try it. Doesn’t matter if you try it for a day, a week or a month. Just put it to the test. You might be surprised with your results.
